it's funny, but facebook feels like a site for communicating with people in your immediate vincity, and the Shadowbox with people from farther away, although i feel i know the shadowboxer better. even when you have friends on facebook from the shadowbox, the shadowbox 'atmosphere' is better.
I agree completely. Although i have you box facebook friends, i love the way here is our 'secret garden' (in a way).
yes! this is the 'secret garden' effect