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[lentower]

Len, I think you did it. I am always going to think you did it. It disappeared at the same time that you sent me a fairly nasty PM (going to deny that too?). So feel free to suggest that it was deleted by me or by goblins, I'm still going to think you did it.

I remember the PM.
I don't think it was nasty,
but you're welcome to your opinion.

I didn't delete your post.

[Shock G]

This is getting better and better!

[Pope Totalfrog]

Len, I think you did it. I am always going to think you did it. It disappeared at the same time that you sent me a fairly nasty PM (going to deny that too?). So feel free to suggest that it was deleted by me or by goblins, I'm still going to think you did it.

I remember the PM.
I don't think it was nasty,
but you're welcome to your opinion.

I didn't delete your post.

Oh, but you did. I might be "small minded and ungrateful" but I'm not crazy.

I will only be posting cute sloths in this thread from this point forward. No point arguing with someone who has a god complex. 

[absynth aura]

[spider jerusalem]

Also, how can she prove you've deleted posts when the posts are no longer there?

Supposing she knew that and have said Len has did it, what she stated she didnt say (mixed up people during quote): If she has the URL directly to that post, she would get a 404 error (page not found). Also, if that post was quoted she would have its link on the quote message (just like here, and clicking on that would lead to a 404 error.

[Agonistes]

spooky mormon hell dream.

[Pope Totalfrog]

This'll make it all better Ag.

<a href="http://www.youtube.com/v/v2O0H_t-7Pk&amp;sns=em" target="_blank" class="new_win">http://www.youtube.com/v/v2O0H_t-7Pk&amp;sns=em</a>

[Agonistes]

it does.

[imaginary friend]

hottest thread of the last month.

the last several, come to think of it.

[Hayley Fiasco!]

I'm really bummed at what this thread has evolved into. Not the baby sloth pictures, but the stuff between.


Listen. The spam is a problem, right? I'm listening, and I will help and speak up LOUD AND CLEAR, to the rest of Team AFP and whoever it takes about your concerns so that progress can be made. Let's move forward.


I, Hayley, want this forum, The Shadowbox, to live up to its potential of being a community, of being a STRONG community that takes care of each other and is a positive, affirming place to share and be heard and laugh and find joy. I'm sure you all, or at least most of you, share this sentiment.

Now, HOW do we do that? How do we make this place the safe haven it once was for any and every one who shares even the smallest common thread of KNOWING OF (and not even necessarily liking or loving) Amanda Palmer and The Dresden Dolls? Tell me, simply put, what you feel or think needs to happen in order for this place to be fun for you? How to make this place something you will proudly share with new friends/fans?

Quote my post here and reply to it and I will take notes and compile a proper assessment with your feedback and try to prioritize a list of things and features that we need to get going to make this place BETTER. Be realistic, be ambitious, tell me (and tell us, Team AFP) what your thoughts are.

Now, the door has always been open for your input - that's why we have a whole forum section dedicated to it - but in writing this post, I want to make it EXPLICITLY clear that you are being heard, and I am serious about getting things back in order.

Cut out the pettiness, bring that to a thread in a general discussion forum, but here, right HERE, tell me, tell us, what you think will make this place be the best it possibly can be. Let's collaborate. I cannot guarantee when (or even IF) these suggestions will be implemented, but I can guarantee that I will work to bring them forward so they can be seriously considered.

Okay? And as always, you can email or PM me if you wish to discuss these things privately.

[Pope Totalfrog]

I'm really bummed at what this thread has evolved into. Not the baby sloth pictures, but the stuff between.


Listen. The spam is a problem, right? I'm listening, and I will help and speak up LOUD AND CLEAR, to the rest of Team AFP and whoever it takes about your concerns so that progress can be made. Let's move forward.


I, Hayley, want this forum, The Shadowbox, to live up to its potential of being a community, of being a STRONG community that takes care of each other and is a positive, affirming place to share and be heard and laugh and find joy. I'm sure you all, or at least most of you, share this sentiment.

Now, HOW do we do that? How do we make this place the safe haven it once was for any and every one who shares even the smallest common thread of KNOWING OF (and not even necessarily liking or loving) Amanda Palmer and The Dresden Dolls? Tell me, simply put, what you feel or think needs to happen in order for this place to be fun for you? How to make this place something you will proudly share with new friends/fans?

Quote my post here and reply to it and I will take notes and compile a proper assessment with your feedback and try to prioritize a list of things and features that we need to get going to make this place BETTER. Be realistic, be ambitious, tell me (and tell us, Team AFP) what your thoughts are.

Now, the door has always been open for your input - that's why we have a whole forum section dedicated to it - but in writing this post, I want to make it EXPLICITLY clear that you are being heard, and I am serious about getting things back in order.

Cut out the pettiness, bring that to a thread in a general discussion forum, but here, right HERE, tell me, tell us, what you think will make this place be the best it possibly can be. Let's collaborate. I cannot guarantee when (or even IF) these suggestions will be implemented, but I can guarantee that I will work to bring them forward so they can be seriously considered.

Okay? And as always, you can email or PM me if you wish to discuss these things privately.

I just sent you a PM

[slyvia k]

I think a lot of the spam problem could be solved appointing a european moderator (or maybe australian, too, should work? time zones confuse me, sorry). Because in the morning (our morning) browsing the box is really painful, since the mods are all still sleeping

[The Angel Raliel]

indeed we need a responsible person who regularly uses the forum in Europe or Britain to take a gun to them there spam-bots.......oh not sure if there is actually a responsible shadowboxer this side of the atlantic though...I sure as hell am not one!

[The Angel Raliel]

wait we're a demcocracy now???

[Hayley Fiasco!]

how strongly do you feel about this? About voting, or is it general input & dialog before decisions that's important?

wait we're a demcocracy now???

Not yet.