My ex might have cancer. She's finding out on the 11th. I found out through her facebook and it took me a second to react and I said to myself 'This is not good news.' and then as soon as I realised that properly, my head started pounding like crazy.
I don't really know if I should say anything to her either because we don't really talk that much. Generally we still get along and I can start a conversation with her on msn and we'll talk for a while but...I really, really don't know what to say, if I should say anything...Like...if I just talked like normal, it might be odd and if I didn't talk at all, I'd probably just lose a friend.
I'll probably just donate money to her sponsored head shaving thing for Cancer Research UK and leave it at that.
I very much hope that it turns out to be something else. Or, even better, nothing. Unlikely as that may be. She's too nice a person to have to deal with this.