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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10980 on: October 05, 2011, 07:52:57 AM »

baah, phone fight with girlfriend...

basically, she said she's coming to my town next week, but she won't be staying at my place -because she doesn't want to bother my parents- but she'll stay at a friend's house.
i do understand her point of view... but really, my parents don't mind at all, and the house is big, so everyone can have their privacy, and we can sleep in the same bed.
what pissed me off so much is that she doesn't understand MY point of view...
that is, it breaks my heart that she's coming here and we won't be spending the nights together.
her friend is a nice guy but i don't know him that well and it's not like i can go spend the night at their place.
and then she was like ''we can go dancing with x, y , blabla'' and i said no and she was all ''i thought we could have a common social life''
and i'm all for it, except that i cannot conceive a ''social'' life when we have no ''everyday'' life...
that is, since i already see her so little, i feel fucking ripped off to know she'll be in town yet ''out of my hands''...
and i mean, i'd rather spend more intimate time just the two of us alone rather than going out.
also she hasn't seen said friend for MONTHS,
so i shouldn't be so possessive maybe?
well i told her fine, come here, stay at your friends, go out with them and we'll see each other another time.
then i hung up....


Aww Syl *hugs* i'm sure she does not want to do so.

Maybe she could not say no to her friends? You know sometimes friends keep expostulating on you like "now that you have a relationship you don't call/meet me...". Maybe it's been a very long time since the last time she has seen her friends, and going to that town she also wanted to see them? Or maybe she is just too shy to meet the parents?
You are such a beautiful couple, i hope you make it up soon.
thanks darling :( *hugs back*
well she knows my parents...and has already stayed at my house. she said she didn't want to be around every lunch and dinner, but well, i'd rather have her sleep at my house and do what she wants during the day, see her friends and such....
what annoys me is that she didn't even try to understand my point of view, saying i didn't understand hers (which isn't true! i understand her point of view! i just don't agree with it lol)
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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10981 on: October 05, 2011, 08:49:09 AM »

baah, phone fight with girlfriend...

basically, she said she's coming to my town next week, but she won't be staying at my place -because she doesn't want to bother my parents- but she'll stay at a friend's house.
i do understand her point of view... but really, my parents don't mind at all, and the house is big, so everyone can have their privacy, and we can sleep in the same bed.
what pissed me off so much is that she doesn't understand MY point of view...
that is, it breaks my heart that she's coming here and we won't be spending the nights together.
her friend is a nice guy but i don't know him that well and it's not like i can go spend the night at their place.
and then she was like ''we can go dancing with x, y , blabla'' and i said no and she was all ''i thought we could have a common social life''
and i'm all for it, except that i cannot conceive a ''social'' life when we have no ''everyday'' life...
that is, since i already see her so little, i feel fucking ripped off to know she'll be in town yet ''out of my hands''...
and i mean, i'd rather spend more intimate time just the two of us alone rather than going out.
also she hasn't seen said friend for MONTHS,
so i shouldn't be so possessive maybe?
well i told her fine, come here, stay at your friends, go out with them and we'll see each other another time.
then i hung up....


Aww Syl *hugs* i'm sure she does not want to do so.

Maybe she could not say no to her friends? You know sometimes friends keep expostulating on you like "now that you have a relationship you don't call/meet me...". Maybe it's been a very long time since the last time she has seen her friends, and going to that town she also wanted to see them? Or maybe she is just too shy to meet the parents?
You are such a beautiful couple, i hope you make it up soon.
thanks darling :( *hugs back*
well she knows my parents...and has already stayed at my house. she said she didn't want to be around every lunch and dinner, but well, i'd rather have her sleep at my house and do what she wants during the day, see her friends and such....
what annoys me is that she didn't even try to understand my point of view, saying i didn't understand hers (which isn't true! i understand her point of view! i just don't agree with it lol)

I guess it's been a misunderstanding. I mean it seems as if she misunderstood your point and thus she felt herself misunderstood. Anyway, i'm sure love will find a way  ;)
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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10982 on: October 05, 2011, 11:18:01 AM »

baah, phone fight with girlfriend...

basically, she said she's coming to my town next week, but she won't be staying at my place -because she doesn't want to bother my parents- but she'll stay at a friend's house.
i do understand her point of view... but really, my parents don't mind at all, and the house is big, so everyone can have their privacy, and we can sleep in the same bed.
what pissed me off so much is that she doesn't understand MY point of view...
that is, it breaks my heart that she's coming here and we won't be spending the nights together.
her friend is a nice guy but i don't know him that well and it's not like i can go spend the night at their place.

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why not?

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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10983 on: October 05, 2011, 11:26:29 AM »

baah, phone fight with girlfriend...

basically, she said she's coming to my town next week, but she won't be staying at my place -because she doesn't want to bother my parents- but she'll stay at a friend's house.
i do understand her point of view... but really, my parents don't mind at all, and the house is big, so everyone can have their privacy, and we can sleep in the same bed.
what pissed me off so much is that she doesn't understand MY point of view...
that is, it breaks my heart that she's coming here and we won't be spending the nights together.
her friend is a nice guy but i don't know him that well and it's not like i can go spend the night at their place.

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why not?
it's out of town, and there's like, zero privacy...

a while ago she called me and said she's ready to give in, but more because she thought there's no hope that i understand her side... baah.
i don't want to obtain things by throwing fits..! i want to obtain them because i'm right :p

so she's getting into town monday, and on friday there's a cool vintage fair near my town, so i guess she can stay a bit at her friend's and then some nights at my place?
it sounds reasonable... :s
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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10984 on: October 06, 2011, 09:24:19 AM »

Just got my first assignment for business law.  TWO massive research projects.  The first of which doesn't even make sense.

First Research Task
A 500 word report should be produced on two different stories found in the media which
cover the interaction between the law and business/commerce. The first 500 word
report should be based on a story found in the traditional print media. The story must be
found in paper publication; not a newspaper website. The second 500 word report
should be a similar report from a solely electronic media source. That does not include
online versions of print media, such as the ‘Times Online’ or any other newspaper website.
It should be online only.

For one thing, most printed news reports ARE available online, and most online reports have been printed in the paper.  I wanted to cover the Murdoch scandal, but it is available both on print and online, so that's pretty much out.  This has really pissed me off because they're being so cryptic.  This is only the first of the two assignments, as well, when we've had NO tuition on this subject yet.  The second assignment is case law from last year, but we have to know all this businessy stuff about them.  I've read up in advance, but there's no way we can know exactly what they want from us at this stage!

Bahh, business laws are boring. But if you need any kind of help, i'm here :)

I may help you in interpretition if you need. These are really boring subjects but it's an everyday thing for me to talk and read and work on incoterms, responsiblities of the buyer/seller, agreement clauses, commercial courts, force majeure, bill of ladding, letters of credit from banks, etc...

A simple example and a day ruiner: I sent a machine to Brazil 2 months ago. While we were loading it to the truck trailer it was quite alright. And when the logistics company loaded it to a container, they took a photograph of the product showing it's still alright and there's no problem.
Anyway the ship sailed nearly two months ago and reached to the port Rio de Janeiro, the agent told me everything's ok. Yet the buyer company sent a couple of idiots to clear the machine from the port, and while they were loading it to their own truck, i guess they used a weak chain to lift it. They told us the chain got broken and the machine crashed to the ground. We are talking about a machine with 3500 gross weight and i think it won't work anymore. And they phoned me two hours ago and asked me to find a solution.

Well, in the agreement we signed to send it with the term CFR, so it's not in my responsiblity anymore since they took it from the ship rail. Yet it has driven me mad, because now i have to send a technician and get it mended. And even if they will meet the accomodation and travel expenses, it's really hard to find a technician who can speak English or Portuguese.
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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10985 on: October 06, 2011, 09:29:42 AM »

The love of my life has finally moved on with someone new. It was heavily discussed that we would get back together after I graduated. 203 days... He is taking the relationship new boy seriously. I majorly depressed, don't want to be at college, all the friends I made last year I don't care about this year. I deleted my Facebook to not communicate from anyone, my Phone has 0 messages, so I suppose I am blessed huh? I go insane at night after I am done with my school work, I cannot describe it. I haven't been this flaky since I first accepted I was gay. I never thought that socially I was weak but I am. Yes, an ex is officially going out with someone.
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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10986 on: October 06, 2011, 10:20:53 AM »


Savannah

your new avie is incredible and awesome!

made my day!

thanx -len

I'm glad you liked it Len. Thanks!  :)

Angry Birds is my fav!
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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10987 on: October 06, 2011, 10:36:19 AM »

Savannah

your new avie is incredible and awesome!

made my day!

thanx -len
I'm glad you liked it Len. Thanks!  :)

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« Reply #10988 on: October 06, 2011, 11:20:26 AM »

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Haha, such an achievement for a nerdy person like me.

Thanks, I managed to realise (or more Matt realised) that bbc news is entirely online - so I found an article there about supermarkets selling consumer legal services.  I now just have to go through the files and files of case reports from last year and find one where two businesses have gone head to head.  Also I need to get some newspapers tomorrow and find something appropriate for my first assignment from print.  I actually have 2 weeks to do it in, so a little bit less worried.  Also I may be picking your brain at some point - I studied bills of lading a little bit the other day, and insolvency law, but some of the other stuff I have zero knowledge on.
BBC news is a great choice. I thought about it but i couldn't find one.
I can send you sample agreements, packing lists, B/Ls, etc or the other necessary informations. I have plenty of such papers and books about the commercial laws.
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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10989 on: October 06, 2011, 10:49:33 PM »

I had an exhausting discussion/argument with my boyfriend and now everything seems to be upside down. I thought our relationship as going great but apparently there was a problem I didn't know about. I didn't even think it was a problem because we had talked about it before and I thought it was over with but no! Now I feel mad but I don't want to be mad and I also don't want to be sad either. I just wish that we didn't have to deal with this one single issue.

For those of you who'd like to know the issue, I'll PM you because I'm afraid it'll start drama here.
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« Reply #10990 on: October 06, 2011, 11:45:55 PM »

I had an exhausting discussion/argument with my boyfriend and now everything seems to be upside down. I thought our relationship as going great but apparently there was a problem I didn't know about. I didn't even think it was a problem because we had talked about it before and I thought it was over with but no! Now I feel mad but I don't want to be mad and I also don't want to be sad either. I just wish that we didn't have to deal with this one single issue.

For those of you who'd like to know the issue, I'll PM you because I'm afraid it'll start drama here.

issues arise.  sometimes they are the crucible an amazing relationship is formed in, and sometimes they are a yardstick the relationship can't measure up to.  without knowing what it is i won't comment on it either, but acceptable compromise is important.  in the end, you both need to be happy.
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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10991 on: October 07, 2011, 01:06:11 AM »

My heart hurts.
I loathe being in love.
I can't sleep.
I don't want to be awake.
I don't want anything any more.
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« Reply #10992 on: October 07, 2011, 01:56:02 AM »

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Re: Shit that ruined your day.
« Reply #10993 on: October 07, 2011, 12:29:22 PM »

I had an exhausting discussion/argument with my boyfriend and now everything seems to be upside down. I thought our relationship as going great but apparently there was a problem I didn't know about. I didn't even think it was a problem because we had talked about it before and I thought it was over with but no! Now I feel mad but I don't want to be mad and I also don't want to be sad either. I just wish that we didn't have to deal with this one single issue.

For those of you who'd like to know the issue, I'll PM you because I'm afraid it'll start drama here.

issues arise.  sometimes they are the crucible an amazing relationship is formed in, and sometimes they are a yardstick the relationship can't measure up to.  without knowing what it is i won't comment on it either, but acceptable compromise is important.  in the end, you both need to be happy.
I know that. It's important to have hardships. But I'm just worried because now I don't know how this is going to happen.
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« Reply #10994 on: October 07, 2011, 03:58:26 PM »

I got my laptop today but the sound didn't work. So I tried getting the drivers and all that but it just said that it couldn't find the sound card. So I took it to a computer place and they couldn't fix it either, except they told me to reinstall Windows 7 and see if that would work. It didn't and now I'm worried I voided the warranty by reinstalling Windows. So that would be £400 wasted. I just want something to go right.

Also, when I rebooted Windows, my wireless card wouldn't work and I just couldn't take any more and started crying. With L here. So embarrassed but I just have too much stress in my life, I don't need any more.
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