^ I totally agree with the need for boxy lovin'.
I know I can talk about my problems with my friends and that they'll help me as much as they can, but sometimes they just don't get what I mean, or I know their opinions before actually talking to them and stuff like that. Sometimes you just need some sort of outsider, who won't judge.
It took one of my friends weeks to get where I was coming from when I was explaining to her why I wasn't looking for a job, yet, even though I've graduated my Master's degree. Today, she finally got it, and only because she doesn't like the internship she's doing (she likes the work, but not enough, people working there work a lot of 12 hour days, and that's something she doesn't want). She said "I don't want to do this for the rest of my life, I don't want to get stuck in this kind of work, I'd be so depressed and unhappy". And as she was saying this, she suddenly realised that's what I'd been telling her for weeks.