^ugh. Is there any way you can just ignore him?
@Topic: I'm impressed with how fantastically I manage to screw up the talking-to-people thing sometimes. Especially when it's important to me to communicate well. Right now, I kind of just want to dig a grave, sit in it, and consider how meta my situation is.
I just can't. We have a classful of common friends, he adds me everywhere i'm online. Oh and he does it in such a friendly way that, i can't ignore or whine when he shows up in facebook chat asking "hello, how do you do m'dear". Killing me softly with politeness and tactfulness.
The reason it hurts and bugs me this much is that, for truth, i know he gives damn about me, yet he's too proud to show any sign of it.
And as for your situation, there's nothing wrong with it. It's just human affairs are weird. What Robin said; when you need someone to talk to, you can't find anyone and feel completely alone. Yet when you are bored of the crowd and need some space, there are so many useless people around you that you feel like screaming.
Really, we are weird creatures. See me, whining about my exes friendliness and politeness. If he didn't talk to me at all, then i would be like 'oh what a son of a bitch, what a fucktard'.