Halp me you guuuuuuys.
So, I have a friend, he's a guy, let's call him N.
N has kids and a wife he is currently divorcing. He's my age, intelligent, good looking, but a little socially inept...in a smart-guy way.
I know this girl F through some other friends, including one she's been sleeping with. She and I talked for a while at the bar about her future with said man and so on.
N thinks F wants to date him/sleep with him. He just wants to be friends. From what I gathered from F, she isn't super interested in him.
N told F publicly on facebook when to meet him at the bar. (After she publicly complained that he didn't invite her last time..when he had invited me but I don't think she knows that)
Anyway, I saw this but didn't say anything. A few days later he messages me and invites ME out, same day, same bar.
So, I think I might be in the middle of these two. I think N deserves waaay better than F, and he knows I'm not a big fan of hers. At all.
And yet he's having me hang out with her? Without really telling me?
I'm not super socially ept myself, and I'm thinking "ITS A TRAP" for some sort of girly cat fight. Because obviously she will assume I'm after him, right?
And I'm not really super excited for inane gossip.
BUT, I want to be a friend for him, and I think doing this is a very friendy thing. I just..I don't know.
What do I dooo?