So one of my best friends, J, has a boyfriend. But he wants the relationship to end, however he previously broke up with this boyfriend then they got back together. Now he's withholding sex in the hopes that the boyfriend will break up with him. J is not a relationship person, I have no idea why he got into it in the first place.
On friday night I was with the boyfriend and his best friend in a club and the boyfriend kept asking "Where's J?" he was around somewhere but I hadn't seen him in over an hour. So I just ended up dancing with those two for the night, his boyfriend is just really sweet and nice, and he was trying to hook me up with his best friend who I would totally do (were he not the room-mate of my crush's best friend).
Anyway, I have now added the boyfriend on FB and he keeps poking me, it's very strange. I'm really really hoping he's not flirting with me (How conceded it that?), not because he's J's boyf (who has said to me "You can have him, seriously") but because I don't want him.
At several occasions I've been with guys who are J's 'sloppy seconds' so to speak, and have been told "Wow, you're so much nicer than him. You would have been a better choice from the start" and not to be mean to J, because I love him to pieces, but this is true.
I'm just hoping his boyfriend hasn't thought that and is now attracted to me, because that would make me feel really awkward....and apparently he's quite bad in bed but that's the least part of the situation of course.