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[Blue Canary]

A good friend of mine is performing in a local musical and I didn't say hi to him afterward because it was busy. I told him that I would go again and hang around later, but then a friend of mine is having a going-away thing. I told her that I might go to the musical because it was a previous commitment. The truth is, I don't really have a desire to see the musical again but I don't want to hang out with the friend because I've seen her a TON since she's been back and she's always really mean to me. Even though she's emotionally draining, I'm still afraid to tell her "no" because she gets explosively angry at me a lot and I'll just end up feeling guilty. :/ dsgjjkdfdf What to do...

[buttercup.]

A good friend of mine is performing in a local musical and I didn't say hi to him afterward because it was busy. I told him that I would go again and hang around later, but then a friend of mine is having a going-away thing. I told her that I might go to the musical because it was a previous commitment. The truth is, I don't really have a desire to see the musical again but I don't want to hang out with the friend because I've seen her a TON since she's been back and she's always really mean to me. Even though she's emotionally draining, I'm still afraid to tell her "no" because she gets explosively angry at me a lot and I'll just end up feeling guilty. :/ dsgjjkdfdf What to do...

A) Claim sickness, sit in bed and watch something comforting.
B) Find something else to do, and make it sound like a previous, previous commitment you had forgotten about.
C) Randomly go out of town. -Yosemite, for example. If you aren't around, no one can say anything.
D) Ditch both without warning. This could be dangerous.
E) Go to the play, suffer through for friendship.

F would be to go get yourself emotionally drained, but I mean really, there's a difference between being a friend and throwing yourself on the tracks of socialization for some steam engine to roll you over with guilt trips.

My favourite is C.

I dislike suggesting deception, though, and when I do suggest such things I really mean do it sort of awkwardly and not meanly.

[Blue Canary]

A good friend of mine is performing in a local musical and I didn't say hi to him afterward because it was busy. I told him that I would go again and hang around later, but then a friend of mine is having a going-away thing. I told her that I might go to the musical because it was a previous commitment. The truth is, I don't really have a desire to see the musical again but I don't want to hang out with the friend because I've seen her a TON since she's been back and she's always really mean to me. Even though she's emotionally draining, I'm still afraid to tell her "no" because she gets explosively angry at me a lot and I'll just end up feeling guilty. :/ dsgjjkdfdf What to do...

A) Claim sickness, sit in bed and watch something comforting.
B) Find something else to do, and make it sound like a previous, previous commitment you had forgotten about.
C) Randomly go out of town. -Yosemite, for example. If you aren't around, no one can say anything.
D) Ditch both without warning. This could be dangerous.
E) Go to the play, suffer through for friendship.

F would be to go get yourself emotionally drained, but I mean really, there's a difference between being a friend and throwing yourself on the tracks of socialization for some steam engine to roll you over with guilt trips.

My favourite is C.

I dislike suggesting deception, though, and when I do suggest such things I really mean do it sort of awkwardly and not meanly.

My favorite is also C. But alas, I work at 9:30 the next morning.
I'm going to tryyyy to switch a shift with a difficult employee a day earlier so I can do both. It won't hurt to try!

[Astica]

A good friend of mine is performing in a local musical and I didn't say hi to him afterward because it was busy. I told him that I would go again and hang around later, but then a friend of mine is having a going-away thing. I told her that I might go to the musical because it was a previous commitment. The truth is, I don't really have a desire to see the musical again but I don't want to hang out with the friend because I've seen her a TON since she's been back and she's always really mean to me. Even though she's emotionally draining, I'm still afraid to tell her "no" because she gets explosively angry at me a lot and I'll just end up feeling guilty. :/ dsgjjkdfdf What to do...

A) Claim sickness, sit in bed and watch something comforting.
B) Find something else to do, and make it sound like a previous, previous commitment you had forgotten about.
C) Randomly go out of town. -Yosemite, for example. If you aren't around, no one can say anything.
D) Ditch both without warning. This could be dangerous.
E) Go to the play, suffer through for friendship.

F would be to go get yourself emotionally drained, but I mean really, there's a difference between being a friend and throwing yourself on the tracks of socialization for some steam engine to roll you over with guilt trips.

My favourite is C.

I dislike suggesting deception, though, and when I do suggest such things I really mean do it sort of awkwardly and not meanly.

My favorite is also C. But alas, I work at 9:30 the next morning.
I'm going to tryyyy to switch a shift with a difficult employee a day earlier so I can do both. It won't hurt to try!

Both? Which ones? Surely not both social events you don't want to go to? Can't you just ask musical friend if you can meet up with him after for coffee or something since you've already seen the musical but would like to talk since you couldnt the other day, and since you're really busy lately you can't really afford to stay for the whole musical a second time?
Also who cares about the mean one.

[absynth aura]

I just watched the finale of Smash. And it totally blew me away. I mean, I don't normally get overly excited over TV shows, but I was literally laying in bed like a teenage girl through the whole episode. It really brought out my inner gay.
The only downside is that there's a long time to wait for a second season, if there is one that is.
Boo.

[Annebelle.]

I was just thinking about dreaming while sleeping. I remember a fair deal of my dreams, but it always happens in waves. Like: I'll remember my dreams in great detail a few nights in a row, then I remember flashes and parts of dreams for a few nights, and then I go a few weeks without remembering anything.

Does anyone else experience dreaming like this?

I should start writing down when I remember them and see if there's a pattern.

[Blue Canary]

I don't know who made these, but I would like to kiss them on the mouth:

[absynth aura]

^LOVE!

As gross as a heated toilet seat would be, there are days when it would be welcome. Today is one of those days.

[imaginary friend]

A good friend of mine is performing in a local musical and I didn't say hi to him afterward because it was busy. I told him that I would go again and hang around later, but then a friend of mine is having a going-away thing. I told her that I might go to the musical because it was a previous commitment. The truth is, I don't really have a desire to see the musical again but I don't want to hang out with the friend because I've seen her a TON since she's been back and she's always really mean to me. Even though she's emotionally draining, I'm still afraid to tell her "no" because she gets explosively angry at me a lot and I'll just end up feeling guilty. :/ dsgjjkdfdf What to do...

she ain't your friend.

[Pandora]

I was just thinking about dreaming while sleeping. I remember a fair deal of my dreams, but it always happens in waves. Like: I'll remember my dreams in great detail a few nights in a row, then I remember flashes and parts of dreams for a few nights, and then I go a few weeks without remembering anything.

Does anyone else experience dreaming like this?

I should start writing down when I remember them and see if there's a pattern.

Usually when you start writing down your dreams you start to remember more of them and then any pattern that might have been there would probably disappear, but you should do it anyway. Reading your own dreams back later is awesome and often hilarious.

[Annebelle.]

I know about the remembereing when you're trying to remember, but I was more like thinking along the lines of just marking a calendar with an X when I remember, to see if there's a pattern. I don't know, there's something that scares me about remembering all your dreams. I tried the writing down everything you remember method for a while, until I had a couple of consecutive days with EXTREMELY fucked up and terrifying dreams. After that I stopped.





Anyway, my random thought: there should be a "things that leave you puzzled"-thread:
I was at this tiny festival-thing that took place at a park in my city, today. And I walked into someone that I remember seeing at school. I don't know his name, I know he's one year below me, but I can't even really remember if he's in the same course as I am. So it's safe to say I only know him from passing by him. Anyway, when I passed him at this festival, he was all "OH! HI! HOW ARE YOU!", like REALLY enthousiastic, as if we really knew each other. And I was just so busy trying to remember who the hell he was, that I didn't really say anything back, I just smiled. And now I'm scared I was a jerk for not saying hi and asking how he was. I don't even know his name, I tried finding him on facebook, to apologize for not saying anything, and I THINK I found him, but I'm not sure, as he/or other random person has a really unclear profile picture.

[spider jerusalem]

I know about the remembereing when you're trying to remember, but I was more like thinking along the lines of just marking a calendar with an X when I remember, to see if there's a pattern. I don't know, there's something that scares me about remembering all your dreams. I tried the writing down everything you remember method for a while, until I had a couple of consecutive days with EXTREMELY fucked up and terrifying dreams. After that I stopped.

I remember a fair deal of my dreams. And many of them are not compilation of what happened during awake time. I end up forgetting most of them during the day, but if you ask me what I dreamt right after I woke up, I will probably be able to tell you most of it. I dont like it, cause some of them are really disturbing.

[absynth aura]

I have 3 options for tonight.
a) I wear my leather jacket, because it will be the warmest. But once we start clubbing it will be too warm.
b) I wear my dinner jacket, which might look a bit odd, but will be a little less warm the the leather.
c) I wear my sport coat, which will probably be the better option, although, it will be the least warm.

I guess I'll have to try all 3 to see which works best.

[Annebelle.]

I'm thinking of joining my city's roller derby team (actually, we just got one, it was founded a couple of weeks/months ago and they've jus started training together this month). But it's kind of an inconvenient time with it being the end of the schoolyear, with lots of stuff that needs to get done.

[Indja]

^Oh my God, it's so much fun!! I stopped because it was going to get too expensive, but it was crazy good fun xD


I just wrote a new blog Enjoy http://spindriftrose.blogspot.co.uk/2012/05/your-penis-is-confusing-me.html